Dating a Stripper – Are You That Guy?
When girls first start working at strip clubs they are usually told to make up a stripper name, like Crystal or Dakota or Bachelor party Strippers; this is done for several reasons such as.
-Its quite common for strippers to get stalkers and giving them a fake name makes it harder for them to track them down outside of work hours.
-It allows them adopt alternative persona’s and psychologically distance themselves from their clientele.
-A lot of guys find exotic stripper names to be sexually appealing and it dehumanizes the women the women they are paying to sexualize themselves.
By getting her real name you are making your interaction a lot more personal and this is a vital basis of any successful seduction. A good way to get their name is to tell them something along the lines of…
“I can’t accept a lap dance from a stranger but if you tell me your real name I guess you wont be a stranger anymore”
When a stripper gives you her real name she has made a significant investment in you as a person and trusted you with a very personal information about herself. This is crucial to her wanting to go home with you at the end of the night.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 6: Pay for a dance but don’t let her dance.
This is the point where you will really stand out from a lot of her usual clients. What you want to do is pay her for a lap dance and then when she starts to dance, tell her you would like to get to know her better first and sit her down next to you.
Once she is sitting next to you get her to talk about herself, her passions and her interests. Pretty much at this point in time you want to make her feel like she is on a date instead of working, it also shows her that you are more interested in her personality than her body.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 7: Ger her mind off the job.
When you are talking to her, make sure that the topic of conversation never falls onto her job as a stripper.
Your aim is to make her forget that she is at work because this will make her treat you like more of a person rather than a client. Get her talking about things that she is interested in outside of work and encourage her to share by sharing with her some interesting and endearing things about your life.